Emotions
September 24th, 2008 by Kateastrophe
Monday morning I showed up at work and saw a chubby security guard smoking near our main door. I shrugged it off thinking he was from another office in our building and just taking a smoke break away from his main duties or something. I walked inside and was greeted by two of our senior level employees who were manning the front desk, armed with some sort of . . . list. I paused, confused, and then asked them what they were doing (and in my head wondered where our receptionist was.) “Just hanging out,” one said, as he eyed his list. The other just nodded and checked his laptop.
As I walked back to my cube, I saw through the cracks of the blinds in our board room a bunch of people sitting in some sort of meeting. It was early for a meeting in our office. We’re a technology company full of . . . technology people. We sort of roll in around 8:45 and it was 8:20 or so. I was early because Matt had a meeting a few blocks from my office and we had carpooled. I was baffled, but blew it off. I’m not “in the know” around the office anymore. Maybe it was a board meeting.
I sat down at my desk and started my computer.
“You made the cut,” said the familiar voice from the next cube. “I guess we both did.”
That’s when it hit me. The security guard, the people in the lobby, the early morning meeting.
Terminations.
Almost 20 people were let go from our company early Monday morning. I knew and respected all of them. The decision to terminate these employees was explained later in a company meeting. It made sense. They had done everything they could to be fair and help these people find new jobs and move on with their lives. But it still sucked. A lot.
My boss said that he knew it would take a couple of days for the reality to really hit me. Boy was he right. Right now I feel so many things.
Relief.
I wasn’t terminated — in fact I was given a raise and somewhat of an unofficial promotion less than a week ago. My performance review was excellent. I am learning a lot and my new boss seems to respect and like me (and the feeling is very mutual.) I am considered a valuable knowledge asset and my opinion appears to be highly valued. I am about to take two days off for a family vacation, shortly followed by a two week vacation to China. I feel truly lucky and relieved that I still have my job and all the benefits that come with it.
Guilt.
One employee who was let go has five children. Several have family members with severe healthy problems. One in particular had expressed to me their dire financial situation and the stress involved in just making ends meet. One had just put a deposit down on a new house. Another had just paid for the first class plane tickets jetting him off on the vacation of a lifetime. All of these people’s lives have been impacted in a way I can’t imagine. My husband has a good job. Our bills are manageable. We are lucky to have more than enough. We don’t have children (or anyone, really) relying on us to provide for their existence. I have connections and people willing to give me a job at any moment. I feel guilty that I get to stay, secure in my position.
Frustration.
I’m frusrated that in the past four years our company has been thisclose to profitability and stability yet somehow keep missing the mark. I’m frustrated that my company stock is worth less than it was when I started. Frustrated thinking maybe I made the wrong decision when I turned down a job offer a few months ago because I truly believed that we could get over the hump and reach our potential as a company. I’m extremely frustrated with the economy. I hate the housing market. Luckily, I don’t have enough money to lose any with the latest financial crisis but I’m pissed at what’s happening to so many. Gas prices still suck (I sure sold my Civic and traded in my Corolla at the wrong time, didn’t I?) and some of that extra I mentioned has been flushed down the hypothetical economic toilet of death.
Exhaustion.
Myself and everyone remaining at our company has gone into turbo mode since Monday. It’s like a knee jerk reaction. We still have our jobs and know the company would have to close it’s doors if it lost another 20 or so, but we’re all working like tomorrow may never come. My brain is going a million miles a minute trying to get all the things I want to do organized into some sort of system. I’m in a meetings all day and trying to fit all my tasks into the few minutes between which are usually reserved for bathroom or food breaks. I’ve come home the last two days ready to collapse with exhaustion, yet I’ve been sitting on my butt all day. I’d rather put a gun to my head than go to the gym or be active.
Determination.
I’m forcing my brain and body to suck it up. I am going to work harder. Prove myself even more. I will accomplish my goals. I will get all my work done. I will not let anyone down. Despite everything, I still believe in my company. I know we can be successful and I will be a part of that success. Just watch me.
I mourn for my friends who lost their jobs. I’ll miss our lunches and the inappropriate conversations that ensued. I’ll miss stealing candy from their desks and writing notes on their whiteboards. I’ll even miss refilling the CO2 tank while they stand there and watch me struggle. I hope they all find a better place to rest soon. That they’ll remember me fondly and that we can stay in touch.
As for me, I’m thanking the Lord that I still have my job and that all my different emotions have lead me to the decision to try a little harder. Just maybe, just a little bit, what happened was supposed to be a lesson for me. A lesson in gratitude, in empathy, sympathy and perserverence.
Just maybe I’ll learn. And remember. And grow.