Never Forgotten
March 12th, 2008 by Kateastrophe
Today marks four years since my Dad and a Half Mike passed away. I wrote a lot about his life last year, and I cry every time I read it. He was such an amazing, loving man and I cannot say enough how incredibly lucky I feel to have had him as part of my life for five short years.
I visit his grave every time I go home and bring him a Diet Coke. I don’t think there’s been a time that I’ve gone up there that there isn’t evidence of someone else who loved him bringing him a little treat. Some gum, more Diet Coke, new wind chimes for him to listen to (oh how he loved wind chimes). . . it reminds me that there wasn’t a person alive, even his ex-wife, who hated him. He was loved by everyone who met him and had such an amazing, positive effect on the world.
I know he’s busy in heaven, probably doing security checks on the gates and making sure everyone sleeps well at night. I also know without a doubt that he is still watching over and protecting his family and friends, just like he always did. In less than two weeks, I will have the privilege of being sealed in the temple to Mike, my mother and my sweet sister. This may not have significant meaning for most of you, but to me, this is the most amazing, most important part of what I believe and I am overwhelmed with joy at the thought.
Mike, you are still loved immensely and missed more than words can say. I will never, as long as I live, forget you and can’t wait to see you again.
- Posted in In all Seriousness, Fam-Damily
March 12th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
That made me teary.What wonderful words you have to say about him. He must have been an amazing person.
March 12th, 2008 at 1:03 pm
What a lovely tribute–I’m sure Mike is proud of you. Days like this are bitter sweet. Take care and be kind to yourself.
March 12th, 2008 at 1:09 pm
How I loved Mike - we all did! He was so great for your family and your Mom, truly an incredible man. I can’t believe it’s been 4 years. Each time I hear ‘Homeward Bound’ I think of him. I’m so happy for your family to be sealed!! How exciting! Love you so much.
March 12th, 2008 at 1:22 pm
You’re getting sealed to MIKE!!! That is so awesome. holy cow Kate. Does one say Congrats for that sort of thing?? Well, he was an amazing guy…
“If the Army and the Navy Ever gaze on Heaven’s scenes,
They will find the streets are guarded By United States Marines.”
Er um you know Mike was in the Army right? Hahaha
March 12th, 2008 at 1:47 pm
Amen. He was an awesome, crazy, wonderful man!
I miss him all the time!
I’m thrilled that you are getting sealed to him!!
March 12th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
He sounds like a beautiful soul. Oh man, this has me crying at work now…
March 12th, 2008 at 2:11 pm
How lucky you are to have had such a wonderful man in your life.
March 12th, 2008 at 3:01 pm
Hugs and love, my bunny. What a lovely post.
March 12th, 2008 at 4:08 pm
What a sweet tribute post, hugs.
March 12th, 2008 at 10:23 pm
My thoughts are with you today. I am glad that knowing he is waiting for you in heaven is giving you some comfort today.
March 13th, 2008 at 12:08 am
I can’t believe it’s been four years. Loved him. And love you.
March 13th, 2008 at 12:21 am
I read your 2007 post and, wow! Truly an inspiring man. I can only imagine what the world would be like if more people were like him.
I’m so happy for you that you’re getting sealed to him, as well as to your mom and sister!
March 14th, 2008 at 4:58 pm
Kate, congratulations! What a wonderful tribute to Mike, you had me crying too! I am sorry that Mike has passed, but there could be nothing better then the fact that your getting sealed to him. I am so happy for you!
March 25th, 2008 at 12:19 pm
thats it, bro
April 5th, 2008 at 2:30 pm
Cool post!, brother